I have by my experience learnt a simple test. It has worked for me quite well, so would like to share it. In relationships, I always used to be confused about the feelings of another person for me. I never could judge whether a person liked my company or not. And it seems very silly making a vain effort to strike a chord with someone when the other does not have any feelings for you.
What I did learn was that in such cases it is best to let the relation go loose. Do not try to indulge yourself in the company of the other! Sometimes it is also cool to not meet/talk with the person for a day or two. Then if there is true love and affection between the two hearts, the person will come back to you and the bond shall grow tighter. If you are not approached, a bond of the kind you imagined/wished for never existed in the first place and therefore do not continue with same effort as it will most likely lead to dejection.
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walia ,but sometimes it happens the other way round.When you do all this testing kind of thing it may happen that the other person may think that its you who is ignoring him and the whole relationship can get spoiled.I am telling this because I also use the same tactics and sometime it results in terrible blunder.It has happened to me.So you need to be cautious.
kandy
For me, it has always worked thankfully. The funda is : If the other person thinks I am ignoring him/her and does not make an attempt to find out why and get things back to normal; I dont think so there is much chemistry between us in the first place. The relationship was always gonna get spoiled. There is a dim chance that the other person is using the same technique as I am, in which case you are correct; it will lead to a very terrible blunder.
i can only say one thing:
easier said than done!
i mean its always not so easy, and sometimes its counerproductive, because its taken as an inverse signal by the other person
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